Finding a Balance

Lets Talk Balance! If your like me and your work 9-5 or whatever your schedule is you need to find a good balance. Going to work everyday and coming home can become a routine very quickly. While some people like the routine lifestyle, others like myself don’t. I prefer to have something to look forward […]

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My Middle Name Is Sha’Vonne DAD

I didn’t even know how to start this off. I rewrote this first part about 12 times. I wasn’t even sure what id talk about or share, but fuck it here it goes. I wanna say my dad started becoming an absent parent around the age of six or seven. I don’t recall him doing […]

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It’s okay to Outgrow Friendships!

    Yesssssssssss I said it! IT IS OKAY TO OUTGROW FRIENDSHPS! I believe that in your life you will outgrow a friend or two, and some will out grow you! Have you ever had a friendship that was so dear to your heart and then one day you realized you were headed in a […]

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Some Shit Ain’t Okay” Apologies !

FUCK ALL THE APOLOGIES YOU NEVER GOT ! How many times have you found yourself saying “its okay” to something that wasn’t okay? Shit I know I use to do it a lot. My vocabulary has changed drastically with that saying. People will continue to milk you for everything in you and not have a […]

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College: Shit Got Real

It was back in 2012 when I went away to college. I attended Bennett College in Greensboro, NC. I will forever be grateful for the experiences I had at Bennett. I had just turned 18 years old and I was off to a totally different environment. Away from my family and friends in a whole […]

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About The Author

Heyyyy Pudddds, So a little about myself. As you can see my name is Alliyya. I am currently 24, (Leo Gang) I’m from New Jersey. I am a college graduate class of 2017!  My Major was Accounting. ( The lord himself helped me). I plan to become a blogger and counselor in my near future. […]

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Your Twenties Matter”

Hey Loves, Welcome to my Blog !  I’m so excited to share my journey as I navigate through my twenties. What Meg Jay calls “The Defining Decade”. I decided to start this blog to connect with other people. Whether you are entering your twenties, currently in your twenties, or leaving your twenties this is the […]

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